Happy Birthday, Neil Gray, 30 August!
It was the Hampshire Schools Championships held at the Mountbatten Centre, Portsmouth, on Saturday 9 June 1984.
It was a warm, sunny afternoon, but I watched about two hours of the event. There appeared to be hundreds of competitors present and it was all of a blur, however, I actually remembered Neil's name mentioned over the public address system.
It was the only athletics event I attended that year.
I was alerted to this event a week before in the Sports Mail on 2 June 1984.
I knew Neil initially at Greenfields, later named Westfield Junior School; I was one of his friends and playmates including Richard Devine, Phillip Pinhorne and Ian Murphy. Even then he was sporty and often played football in the playground; in the final year of junior school, he wore a monitor badge.
In September 1977, he began his secondary education at City of Portsmouth Boys School, I went to Priory School, lost touch, attempted to meet him in 1983, but that fell through.
On Saturday 16 June 1984, an article appeared in the Sports Mail about him.
The bound volume of The News and Sports Mail which contained the articles at the British Library in Boston Spa.
All outstanding gaps are now filled in my definitive list of athletics events I attended (see 20 July 2018 entry)
Subsequent developments from attending my first athletics event
At the time I worked in the library at Portsmouth College of Art, Design and Further Education as a Youth Training Scheme (YTS) trainee, later taken on as an employee, and was interested in athletics to a big degree (this was the Sebastian Coe, Steve Cram and Steve Ovett era) as well as my model and prototype railway interests.
After reading Neil's Sports Mail article, it dawned on me that I had better chances seeking him out directly at athletics events than contacting him at home because his training and coaching commitments meant he was out much of the time.
On Sunday 19 May 1985, I recognised him for the first time since leaving junior school competing in the shot put at the Hampshire County Championships, Mountbatten Centre.
(Incidentally he finished in 5th place with a 14.70m best throw)
In September 1985, I moved to London to study for a degree in library and information studies at Ealing College of Higher Education. I wrote to him enclosing a passport photo of myself so he could recognise me at events, because by then I didn't wear glasses. About that time or just afterwards he joined Shaftesbury Harriers club in north London.
I saw him compete 11 times in all, but every time Sod's law dictated I was unable to say hello or introduce myself!
At three other events during my time I was interested in athletics, I heard his name over the public address (twice) or saw his final ranking on results sheets posted in the stadium (once), but didn't see him in person.
After reading Neil's Sports Mail article, it dawned on me that I had better chances seeking him out directly at athletics events than contacting him at home because his training and coaching commitments meant he was out much of the time.
On Sunday 19 May 1985, I recognised him for the first time since leaving junior school competing in the shot put at the Hampshire County Championships, Mountbatten Centre.
(Incidentally he finished in 5th place with a 14.70m best throw)
In September 1985, I moved to London to study for a degree in library and information studies at Ealing College of Higher Education. I wrote to him enclosing a passport photo of myself so he could recognise me at events, because by then I didn't wear glasses. About that time or just afterwards he joined Shaftesbury Harriers club in north London.
I saw him compete 11 times in all, but every time Sod's law dictated I was unable to say hello or introduce myself!
At three other events during my time I was interested in athletics, I heard his name over the public address (twice) or saw his final ranking on results sheets posted in the stadium (once), but didn't see him in person.
(Full details can be supplied on request)
I attended 39 events between 1984 and 2002, including the Sydney Olympics in 2000 and finally the 2002 Commonwealth Games in Manchester.
However I was unsuccessful getting a ticket for the 4 August 2012 "Super Saturday" athletics evening session at the London Olympics, although earlier on in the day I watched the Mexico-Senegal football game at Wembley Stadium.
I was always interested in the bigger picture - over the years I attended a broad spectrum of events from major internationals down to national, regional and local meetings.
I don't know how many of Neil's old schoolmates and friends saw him compete, but I guess I saw him more often than most!
I felt it was time to reveal my past interest in watching athletics events because it developed only after I left school.
As a complete aside in 1986 I was one of the studio audience who saw former shot putter Geoff Capes perform live on BBC's That's Life programme in London throwing a wellington boot and describing the injury phenomenon known as "welly finger".
If Neil's reading this, please contact me as I'm delighted to hear more about his side of things and views what I've raised in this blog post ... and an opportunity to ask burning questions about his athletics career ... and meet up with him again please ...
[Posted just after midnight UK time 30 August, but time-stamped for Californian time 8 hours previously]
[Revised 1 September 2018]
[Revised 10 October 2018 removing Neil Gray's hyphenated surname as he prefers to be known by his original surname]
I attended 39 events between 1984 and 2002, including the Sydney Olympics in 2000 and finally the 2002 Commonwealth Games in Manchester.
However I was unsuccessful getting a ticket for the 4 August 2012 "Super Saturday" athletics evening session at the London Olympics, although earlier on in the day I watched the Mexico-Senegal football game at Wembley Stadium.
I was always interested in the bigger picture - over the years I attended a broad spectrum of events from major internationals down to national, regional and local meetings.
I don't know how many of Neil's old schoolmates and friends saw him compete, but I guess I saw him more often than most!
I felt it was time to reveal my past interest in watching athletics events because it developed only after I left school.
As a complete aside in 1986 I was one of the studio audience who saw former shot putter Geoff Capes perform live on BBC's That's Life programme in London throwing a wellington boot and describing the injury phenomenon known as "welly finger".
If Neil's reading this, please contact me as I'm delighted to hear more about his side of things and views what I've raised in this blog post ... and an opportunity to ask burning questions about his athletics career ... and meet up with him again please ...
[Posted just after midnight UK time 30 August, but time-stamped for Californian time 8 hours previously]
[Revised 1 September 2018]
[Revised 10 October 2018 removing Neil Gray's hyphenated surname as he prefers to be known by his original surname]